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WACHKOMA


 

Separat


We have been together all our lives but we have been separated nevertheless.

It seems as if we are one but we are not. If I am emotional you have no chance to do your work so if I want to work I cut you off and I do not allow myself to feel something.

This has been my way of living since before I was born. The pregnancy of my mother was so full of confusion that I decided to stop feeling what was going on.

Now this way of life does not help me to live the way I want to live. I want to live my love and use it in my work but as long as I have this splitted behaviour I will not be able to use my love emotionful during my work.

If I want to feel, I have to stop working and concentrate on how I feel. I do not like that. I want to feel while I am working, moving, thinking, all the time I want to feel my love.

My love is not an emotional love. It is not the love that is depending on someone. It can be stimulated by someone but it is not depending on someone. I am very grateful to meet more and more people that stimulate the flowing of my love and my being aware of it.

And I am very grateful that I do not need someone to feel my love flow. It just happens and feels very good. I love to feel that my love is flowing. The work with patients in coma has been very important for that.

They have showed me that they do not mind me being the cold kicker that I seemed to be. The therapist without emotions that they were treated by. The treatment they got was exactly what they needed. They do not mind to be treated with emotions but it is not the most important aspect of the treatment.

They need to be treated as a person that is totally aware of everything that is happening and is much more sensible that the person he was before the accident. Also the therapist and nurse should be aware of the fact that the patient can not move without help!

He can move but not without help. If the therapist takes the time to ground the patient before he makes movements with the patient, he will, if he makes the movements in the speed that is the speed of the patient, he will feel that the patient is making the movement. By making the same movement 12 times and using music and words to complete the movement, the movement will be saved in the movement system of the patient.

This saving has to be confirmed by grounding again. 12 is enough, 10 is too little…

More about the treatment of patients in coma can be learned in the EDUCATION to coma-therapist or coma-nurse that can be given everywhere where there are persons interested.

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