You keep your hat on. We are not in church because there one does not get TEA 4 2 with cake.
And here one can even chose. I drink tea, you drink latte macchiato without the tiramisu that I had. The grandparents come in with the kids that are allowed to chose a piece of cake, but not allowed to take a bit of sugar.
MY WAY to this place I saw some kids bound to each other by a rope. That was a sign that they feel tied by a rope.
Their parents have convictions that make, that the kids are not free. They are told, that they must follow the orders that they are given out of these convictions.
The rules based on these convictions are grounded on fear. The kids know this but they follow the rules out of love to the parents. The parents are not aware of this and did the same.
They are not aware of the results of the rules and therefore they do not change them. They do not want to see the result of the rulse because than they have to change their behaviour.
They would no longer show their richness at the outside or in immobility. They would show their richness at the inside and everyone would see it because of the light they are.
Their kids would also get inspired by this light and develop their own light. If you want so shine and think you need some help to this, you might find a COURSE that attracts you.