To start to change the own lifestyle is not easy. The start of life is not for everybody the same. Some people are born spontaneously, others are forced to stay where they are or to come before they are ready to come.
And some people are saved out of a life dangerous situation for mother and child. This child is the happiness that can not be destroyed. This child has an inner knowledge out of experience that whatever life danger, it is saved.
The child that was forced not to come or forced to come earlier, does not have this start. It was in life danger because it was forced to stay longer in the body of the mother or because it was forced to get out before it was ready.
The birth is of much more importance than parents are aware of. They are told that all the medical investigations are not hurting the baby that is growing in the belly, but that is only said because the damage can not be measured.
You are seen without being aware of but you feel supported, without knowing why. You are supported by the energy of love that does not punish, that does not make a difference between man or woman, adult or child, black or white, in movement or in coma.
The patient that is diagnosed as "patient in coma", which means that he can not move visibly for those who do not use their sense of awareness, can move and this can be measured by helping him to move. The help this patient needs is not chemaicals nor mechanical wheel chairs.
The help that a patient in coma needs is an electrical wheel chair with standing possibility and a personal assisent that helps the patient with every movement so the movements will be bigger. The movements that the patient in coma makes are small movements.
Like the person that does not dare to get out of the house or the person that is known as always making small movements, never being able to sit more that f.ex. 3 minutes in peace. Than he has to stand up and offers you a cup of tea, cake, bakes a cake or whatever comes into his mind.
By being physically busy he avoids the thoughts that he gets when he is in peace and not moving. The loss of makes people stop moving. So these movements will not remember them of the loss. The woman that loved to dance with her fiancee and could not marry him, does not want to dance any more.
The man that loved to sing with his financee does not sing any more as he did not marry her. The time makes that we have experiences that we regret not having been able to move, forgetting to send a message, leaving too early, whatever.
All our deeds are the following of decisions that are not always taken in total awareness. The unaware being is a result of all the experiences of the person and his family as he has formed his own family energy out of the family energy that his parents had.
The family energy is trying to let love flow in the family and every member of this family will do his best to be a good member of this family and sometimes one of the non-written rules is, that you are not allowed to have contact with people that have similar family energy.
People that have similar family energy are recognised and one does not need words to feel comfortable in each others presence. One has the inner knowing that this person is member of the family and the more one opens up for this family, that is not the blood relationship but the energetic relationship that is based on same experiences and same needs, the more one sees the other members.
The person that is longing for contact but fearing it at the same time, has to learn to stay in the own energy in stead of tuning in on the other to be able to avoid war. The person that comes out of a family where the parents were always in war, often has his attention on the other so he will react the way that is needed to keep the harmony.
This harmony is not harmony but an armed harmony or unarmed war. The disagreements are not talked over until agreement is achieved but the non-flexible partner decides against the will of the flexible partner that does not make war because he can not stand it.
He rather gives up his flexibility and possibility to move than make war about disagreements. Usually he is not capable to speak for himself, although he is the best speaker for others. The mother that talks for her children to make the father do what has to be done so the children can become adult without too much pain and the father that speaks for his children and makes clear to the mother that her preferences is not what gives the children the security they need, must learn to speak for themselves.
The therapist that does not dare to tell his collegues that their treatment should be changed, was not sure about in what way. The collegues did not want to change their way of treatment. They are convinced that patients in coma can not move and they do everything to prove that.
If anyone can prove that the hpi-method does not work, he will get his education fare back.