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And so wanted Kine Hellebust sing for me. I got a mail from Norway. I was happy to hear from my friends that I know since the beginning of my time in Norway.

We lived in the same house until they moved direction Oslo. We did not see each other much as I lived in Oslo. It was not long I lived there.

What may be the reason of all those special experiences they have? They are very lovely people and always trying to help others. That is because they were raised like that.

It seems they do not know how to take care of themselves. How to fulfil their own needs. Are they aware of their own needs? Or are they like me and always feeling the pains of others?

I am running a lot in the night at the moment. I am not really running but it looks and feels like running. My feet stand very connected to the ground but the rest of me is acting like running.

I run for others. They run home. Home is where it is safe. They run to their family, whatever experiences they had there. Home is safety that is needed to feel comfortable.

If mother is not connected to the kids, the kids can not act like grown up and they will try to get the attention of others to be able to let their love flow.

The person that they find is someone that does not feel who he is and uses this kid to get a feeling of motherly feelings, the feelings that has not been in the elderly house.

The parents of this kid that does not feel who he is, were not able to feel themselves who they were. The kid is an autist and mirrors all the people he meets or is connected to.

The person that found the kid to give it the motherly feelings can get connected through this relationship with his feelings of caring and it gives the impulse to take care of the other, something the person does not do to himself.

This person, that gets motherly feelings for the other can heal himself by taking care of the needing kid. Both will be healed if the caring is fulfilled. Both kids need someone to take care of and to be taken care of.

This taking care of and been taken care of helps them to connect their physical body to their emotional and mental body. This connection has been damaged through several situations of neglect of the needs of the kid.

Abuse is a situation that usually is the cause of the second need, meant is here the need to be taken care of. The need to take care of is caused through the mental need to be able to share experiences of trust because the person has experienced several situations of dishonesty in which the words that were spoken did not tell the truth.

So the need to be taken care of is usually caused by abuse or because the needs of the kid that were life important, were not fulfilled in time.

The need to take care of will develop out of the need to be taken care of. The person that has healed his need to be taken care of can imagine and sense the need of the other to be taken care of and will take care of if it is in his possibilities to help the kid to heal his need to be taken care of.

The person that installs his life around someone else that needs to be taken care of will take over this need if the other one does not heal his problem. To take care of someone can only be a win-win situation if it is changed in time.

That means that the person with the need to be taken care of, will have to get aware of his need and allow himself to fulfil this need himself.

He has to get aware that he is not taking care of himself and he must allow himself to change that. He must do that so love can flow in both directions.

If the person that needs to be taken care of does not take responsibility for his feelings he will never be able to change them and he will not heal his problem. The other person will not be able to feel comforted as he has not a positive result of his caring.

We all need changes to be able to change our behaviour. It helps to change surroundings or start moving, physically. By moving the energy system gets moving energy and this energy can be used to change the physical system and this change will continue in the emotional and mental system.

Emotional movements will be given through physical signs like pain. These pains are not physical pains. They are felt in the physical body but that is only the place where this pain is felt. The pain is a sign of not changing what wants to be changed.

The emotional body does not have another possibility than pain in the physical body to express itself. If the person investigates the pain he will find out what thoughts are connected to the pain and that gives him the possibility to change these thoughts.

A help in the investigation can be to look what is the effect of the pain. F.ex. one can not walk: we will not go somewhere together, so the question is if the person wants to go somewhere with the other one. Another example: stiff neck: can not look over the shoulder, so the question is if the person wants someone to look over his shoulder or whether the other one will stand behind him but he does not want it. He keeps his head directed strait on which makes that he can not see what is going on at the side or at the back. He does not feel supported because he can not see the support and he can not see it because he keeps looking strait on.

The support is there but the person does not feel it and therefore he is not grateful for the support. This person must get aware that he is taking himself by the nose. He tells himself, he is not supported even though he knows he is supported.

This person does not take responsibility of his life. He stays in the energy of abuse and thinks the others are guilty of his situation. It is possible that he knows that the others are not guilty of his situation but emotionally his feelings are that the others are guilty.

This situation is caused through the family system. In the family the person is born in, the mother did take over the pants as the father no longer could have them on for whatever reason. The kid has no possibility to take responsibility of his situation as long as the mother has the pants on.

The kid must give the father the pants on. The father is head of the family and must have the pants on. He must be the one that takes care of the family and the kid must take that responsibility to give the father the pants on. By doing so and by giving the mother the function of the caring person that is also the connection of the kids and the father, the kid will be able to take his responsibility for his own well being.

This changing of pants between the mother and the father can be done energetically. It is not important if the parents are alive. It is about energy, family energy and through restoring the power in the family the love can flow and the kid will be able to live his power.

The physical body may be painful but this pain is not a physical pain. It makes the person aware of his immobility and will disappear if the person gets moving. This moving must not be a moving from the place where he lives but moving in the park, moving in the woods, moving at the golf field will do…

I like to play golf. It makes me make contact with my physical body. That contact was not that good. I am happy it is much better now. I feel a lot more than before. Before I was a cold kicker and now I am a feeling person. I do not only feel my physical body, but I also feel if someone has pain that he or she can not get rid of.

I feel the pain, get aware of it, see if it is mine and if not, I do not bother much. It might be a severe pain, but as it is not mine, I just feel it and move until the pain is gone.

I am not a special person. You too might need more movement to get rid of the pain you feel and that might be not your pain but the pain from others. Allow yourself to be honest with yourself and allow yourself to live for the benefit of the Whole. That will make that you let your love flow, your family will support you and you will be able to use and give on their love too.

You will maybe not get rid of you pain but you may gain the nice feelings that are there too. Get aware of what is happening, get aware not only of your physical body but also of your emotions and of your thoughts. Do you allow yourself to be happy? Do you allow yourself to be a sensitive person? Do you allow yourself to take care of others or are you afraid of the future?

The future you are creating now. Use your imagination to create a life full of light and love. By letting your love and your light flow, you create another world than if you think about all the things you do not want in your life.

Everything you do not want, you will get. Because you are a master creator and your attention to all that, that you do not want, makes that you get it.

Your attitude to life makes your life. Life is the mirror of your attitude. Change your attitude and your life changes. Think big! You have an immense amount of energy. Use it to heal yourself so you can heal others.

Enjoy your life, you know how to live it. Follow your inner voice and thank it for being there. Be honest to yourself so this honesty will be reflected to you by others.

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