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Your friend

   
     

You have a lovely friend that I would like to be able to call my friend too. But I do not know if that is the case. We were talking as you came home and our conversation was ended by that.

We know each other through you but you do not want to have anything to do with me because I know your family. Knowing some ones family can be a reason to avoid contact.

I have another point of view about your family than you want to see. You know that I got a good point of view but to you that point of view is too painful to accept. So you keep your eyes closed as well as your mouth and your ears.

That is what you were shown by your family and you do not want to be disobedient. I do not want to be disobedient either but I do not want to keep my mouth shut, close my eyes and my ears. I am just happy that I learned to talk.

I still can not talk right away. I do need time and sometime a lot of time, too much to be able to be understood so I started to write what I wanted to say but could not say at the time it was needed. You were still in church as you came home.

You were still enjoying all those people that you had talked to but now you were speechless as we were talking without needing your opinion. We were talking about our emotional experiences and that makes you speechless as you are no longer capable of talking if you are emotionally.

I used to be that way and that was the reason that I behaved as the "koude kikker" that seems to have no feelings and no emotions. I did have feelings and I did have emotions and as long as I could avoid them I was able to talk.

Like so many other people. Since I know this, I observe a lot of people that have the same "illness" and do their best not to get in emotional situations. Emotional situations often are not recognised as an emotional situation by the other person involved.

The other person does not have the same problem as he reacts the other way around. He does not react by avoiding emotional situations by being aware of the situation but he reacts by only being aware of his thoughts because that makes that he does not get emotional.

So you were not aware of your thoughts as I said to you that you reacted as your family. You became speechless because you could not avoid the emotion that was caused by this statement. Your emotional reaction was a copy of the one that is normal in your family and that you do not like at all.

That was the reason that you were totally surprised by the statement I made but you could not stay out of your emotions because you know it is true. Everybody knows the truth with his heart and will always be influenced by this knowing.

If someone does not want to change his attitude, he has to do something if he wants to change the truth. He will have to follow the lie that usually is a rule of the family. These rules are usually not written but the person knows these rules without being aware about them.

These rules make the person a member of the family because by following these rules he shows his support to the family. Unfortunately by following these rules he disturbs his own life because these rules are not meant to be rules.

Families have rules that are a result of fear. Fear for the reaction of others or fear for the loss of … or fear for a person in the family or……. All those fears make the members of the family do things that are not a sign of love. In the family only love should be the rule of life.

All rules that restrict the members of the family are not a sign of love but a sign of fear and the result of those rules can never be love, the only cause of life. Without love life is not worth living it.

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